First let us start by defining who can be called a ladies guy. A ladies guy is that charming, fashionable, cute and confident guy who gets the all the attention of the girls around just by being physically present. He is not necessarily a womanizer, ladies just like flirting and being in his company because they can’t help but notice him when he is around.
Though similar to a playboy but distinct in the sense that playboys flirt for financial or sexual gains and breaks your heart in the end. However a lady’s man almost effortlessly attracts the girls, may engage them in conversations but do not necessarily play with their emotions.
So do you want to be that guy? Here are are rules you must maintain:
1. Dress To Impress: Research has shown that simply dressing up good leads to an increase in perceived attractiveness. Choose clothing that accentuates your features and lines, something that makes you look more muscular and stand you out among others. Appearing fashionable does not just start and end with clothes, your hair, shoes, colour combinations, wrist watch and other accessories also play a good role. Pay attention generally to how you appear when the eye meets you and you are half way there.
2. Smell Nice: Some studies have suggested that women are more influenced by the way a man smells rather than the way they look. Wearing a nice fragrance adds more boldness to your appearance and when you go closer you smell edible.
3. Use Compliments: There is no better way to spice up a conversation with a lady than using a befitting compliment, besides women love to be complimented. It creates a special wave of pleasure in their brains. If you want to be a ladies guy, you must learn to compliment women. Notice everything different and good about them, from the hair to their beauty, intelligence, shoes, fragrance. Do it moderately though, do not make the conversation all about compliments.
4. Be Bold And Confident: Apart from looking good and smelling nice, the best other dress you could wear is Boldness, confidence, and good self esteem. Act like you are in charge, smile often, it shows charisma. Speak boldly and confidently to her and maintain a good eye contact, this will make her feel a little shy, comfortable and secure around you.
5. Flirt A Little: Be a sexual person and flirt whenever you can, To flirt appropriately you’ll need to be witty. Women enjoy a clever back-and-forth. Flirting is partially teasing and partially showing you are attracted. A little humour, a little tease, a little touch, and a little gesture at the right times creates the perfect balance and paves the way.
6. Be A Good Listener: Being a good listener is a sure-fire way to attract women, Face her and be attentive. Try to listen to what she’s saying without judging. Avoid admonishing her, don’t be in a hurry to advice her. If you think you have a solution for her, make it look like a reply and bury it in the conversation rather than sounding like a correction or consultant. She is telling you so you can listen and be in her emotions not to become a judge.
7. A Little Mistery: Do not be pushed to let it all out at once, keep the conversation a little below the surface. Do not let her figure you out all at a time, that makes you look easy and regular. Keep somethings to the imagination, let her figure out some herself. Do the unexpected, do not be predictable, a little mistery it will make you appear exciting and adventurous.