A lot of young ladies like bad boys, they love the thrills, adventure and suspense it brings. They would often complain that good guys are boring and not fun to be with, they are not spontaneous and do not give them that adrenaline feeling they get from the other side. For these reason, the bad boys always gets the best of girls and the good ones have to make do with whatever is left.
Same scenario and story plays out on the other end for young men, most of them will prefer to go after the bad girls who they feel are more exposed, social, fun and street smart. They will often say bad girls are the best and comes with a lot of fun and pleasure. You will always hear them complain of the good ones to be too dull, have rigid lifestyle and bring no fun at all.
Without biased or prejudice, no doubt, there is this fun flow that comes with a bad boy or bad girl partner. Moreover, sometimes a little bad is good, it keeps life spicy. However, dating a carefree or bad partner comes with it’s own disadvantages. They are often self centred, abusive, irresponsible and unreasonable. In most cases, it ends up degenerating into toxic and violent relationship and that’s when we hear the “men are scum”, “women are not loyal” heartbreak song.
After several bad partners and countless heartbreaks, they finally decide to try the good ones and that’s when they appreciate the goodness and simple but interesting qualities the good ones have to offer. This are the same qualities they initially termed boring and uninteresting.
finally, sometimes we have to have been in few bad relationships, date one or two toxic or bad influence partners, make some mistakes before we can recognise and properly appreciate a good one. That gives us the experience to make better choices, value what we have and offer better advices in the future.