A lot of times I have heard men and women reject or dump a partner for some of the silliest or most serious reasons. Someone then comes along, picks them up for that same reason. lo and behold, they make something good out of it and life cruises on. The other person goes on to pick up anothers reject and forges on with life also.
When it comes to love and relationships, the concept of good and bad, beautiful and ugly, romantic and annoying etc is actually relative and depends on individuals sometimes. What feels good to A may feel bad for B, what looks beautiful for one, may be ugly or disgusting for another and what appears romantic to you may be an annoying gesture for me. That is why the popular saying “beauty is in the eyes of the beholder” stands valid till date.
This is in no way claiming there is no general bad character that everyone may find annoying or that there is no physical beauty that everyone may agree on. However, People tango or get attracted to each other for different reasons and what feels so important to you may not mean so much to another. Some can’t stand ladies that talk back during an argument, others want ladies who talk back so they know what’s on their mind. Some hate men who get physical in arguments, others say they are ok with it, it makes them feel like a woman.
Therefore different strokes for different folks, no one is a complete reject. No matter how you are and what people may have told you in the past as a reason for either not finding you attractive or dumping you, there is always someone for everyone and you will find yours. If you are very short, there are persons who like short guys or girls. If you are fat, that is some people’s dream size. Even if you are illiterate and unfashionable, someone out there won’t actually mind brushing you up and making you look good. However if you got a bad attitude and everyone is complaining about it, please do change it.
So no matter how you look, what you can or can’t offer, where you live, how many times you may have been rejected or heartbroken or what others may have said in the past. Just keep improving yourself, never mind! Keep working on your goals and dreams. One way or the other, we are all someone’s reject. The person rejecting you for some reason may also have been rejected for some other reason by another. Someday, someone will come along and make you realise why it has not worked out with others or why they did or said what they said. You are someone’s delight and they are just around the corner. Keep living your best life, they will meet you there.