Finding love and dating the person you love is a very exciting and soul lifting feeling. You have someone you can call your own, whom you can turn to anytime for physical, emotional, moral, financial and sexual support. No feeling beats that feeling you have when you love love someone so dearly and they also love you back wholeheartedly and treats you so tenderly.
However, love and relationship are not always a rollercoaster feeling, they come with thier own problems, headaches and complications. Infact, the more deeply you love, the more deeply you can be hurt. The more you invest into a relationship, be it time, emotions, money or a combination of them all, the greater pain you get when something goes wrong.
Love and relationship is not for kids, neither is it for the immature mind. Sometimes it requires you to give more and expect less, trusting blindly, therefore puting yourself at a great disadvantage physically and emotionally. So many people enter into relationships thinking it is all sweet sensation and when they encounter problems, they chicken out.
Love is a mixture of pain and pleasure, Relationships are headaches. Somedays you will be hurt badly and somedays you will hurt them badly too. But when you manage it well and someone sees it from the outside, they think it’s all groovy. You have to be ready emotionally and mentally for it before jumping into it, it’s not just about the cute photos and videos you see on social media. There will be arguments, disappointments, hurt words, mental challenges, emotional attacks, hate and regrets etc.
You need to learn to manage situations properly, understand your partner and thier pattern of doing things. Most importantly, learn to be patient, endure and forgive. Also cultivate the habit of communication and resolution of conflicts. Seat down and talk things through, communicate your feelings and expectations clearly and have them understand your own angle of arguement. Also give them the chance to explain theirs too and listen to understand. Learn the art of making your relationship work and you will be the envy of many.